A trade off, to exchange something dark or ugly (troubles) for something beautiful (peace of mind).
After years of enduring so much hurt, lots of struggles, and various forms of abuse, I’d become dormant and detached from emotions. I bottled up all my feelings and kept them hidden. I never addressed or sought-after help and had convinced myself that I was fine. Years of having to be strong and brush things off had finally caught up with me and nearly destroyed my life. I was an emotional wreck, but my pride wouldn’t allow me to admit it. Then one day life took yet another turn, but this time I had no strength to even pretend to be fine. My children were hurting and I couldn’t help them because I myself was in need of help. But by the grace of God or a higher being, which I choose to believe is God, brought me out. I made a deal, to be proactive in my calling in exchange for the beauty of life. I agreed to hand over all my hurt- (ASHES) for my crown of Beauty-(Peace). I made a promise to myself and God to do my part and help as many as I can and that was the start to my New Beginnings.
A wonderful friend/mentor said to me one day before a speaking engagement that she had been thinking about me the night before and that God put it on her heart and mind – Beauty for Ashes and that was me, she witnessed me at one of the lowest points of my life and also had the chance to witness the beautiful person I was becoming. I’d never heard of B.F.A. Then about a year later I decided to research the meaning and found it to be a biblical reference, Isaiah 61:3. The rest is history.
When I was younger I was intrigued by listening to motivational speakers and the way they captivated their audience. I enjoyed it then and even more so now listening to stories of triumph. I believe what better way to get a message across than to speak it, so I made the decision to comment and I set out to become one.
My book is raw, completely honest but yet so relatable. I wanted to expose the person I am. I want my readers to have an understanding of who Falin is and the foundation of her, (what I went through and how it shaped me) then the journey of all the effects these things had on me and then finally join me on the journey of my new beginning- where I am now and where I’m headed. I want to motivate and give hope to others that may feel alone as I did, that a better brighter tomorrow does exist.
Beauty For Ashes knows it is hard to move on from what you feel right now, but we are sure that this 30 minute call can be your first step to a new beginning.
Meaningful goals, helping my clients have a new perspective on life despite the challenges that they have and or facing.
To advocate for people that feel they don’t have a voice or feel ignored. I want my services to be the medium for them. I’ve learned that so many people actually want help, but many just don’t know where to start so I want my services to help them start, rather it be connecting them to the proper counselor or therapist or even them being apart of my peer support groups, it will be a starting point for them towards new beginnings.
My children and helping others become the best version of themselves
Remain optimistic, know that it’s temporary and that things that are temporary will come to an end, just keep pressing. If you can’t find the strength to do it for yourself, do it for who you love most- you’ve got to believe that you have purpose. And never get consumed in your shortcomings, the future is always brighter, be patient. Like the LOTUS FLOWER – a symbol of transformation, rebirth, and triumph over obstacles: Even though it’s roots are in the dirtiest waters the lotus still produces the most beautiful flower. It just takes time, but you will be RENEWED.
Mindset coaching is currently the most famous strategy to achieve goals and you you will master the technique of how to control your mind and
So, in this blog below, we will discuss some bible verses about the negative thoughts that will uplift your soul.
Healing from the past is difficult but necessary because you cannot progress in life if you are stuck in the past. Wanna know how to
